Chapter 8: Problem 10
Analyze the effects and significance of changes in family patterns in middle adulthood. For many parents, a major midlife transition is the departure of children who are going to college, getting married, joining the military, or taking a job far from home. Even people who become parents at relatively late ages are likely to face this transition, because the middle adulthood spans nearly a quarter century. As we saw in Kathy and Bob's story, a child's departure can be wrenching - so much so, in fact, that it has been labeled the "empty nest syndrome." The empty nest syndrome refers to the unhappiness, worry, loneliness, and depression some parents feel when their children leave home (Lauer \& Lauer, 1999 ; Erickson, Martinengo, \&c Hill, 2010 ). Many parents report that major adjustments are required. For women who were stay-at-home mothers, the loss can be quite pronounced. Traditional homemakers, who focus significant time and energy on their children, face a challenging time. Although the loss can be difficult, parents also find that some aspects of this transition are quite positive. Even mothers who have stayed at home find they have time for other interests, such as community or recreational activities, when the children leave. They may also enjoy the opportunity to get a job or return to school. Finally, many women find that motherhood is not easy; surveys show that most people regard motherhood as harder than it used to be. Such women may now feel liberated from a difficult set of responsibilities (Heubusch, 1997; Morfei et al., 2004; Chen, Yang, \&c Dale Aagard, 2012).