Analyze the effects and significance of changes in family patterns in middle
adulthood.
For many parents, a major midlife transition is the departure of children who
are going to college, getting married, joining the military, or taking a job
far from home. Even people who become parents at relatively late ages are
likely to face this transition, because the middle adulthood spans nearly a
quarter century. As we saw in Kathy and Bob's story, a child's departure can
be wrenching - so much so, in fact, that it has been labeled the "empty nest
syndrome." The empty nest syndrome refers to the unhappiness, worry,
loneliness, and depression some parents feel when their children leave home
(Lauer \& Lauer, 1999 ; Erickson, Martinengo, \&c Hill, 2010 ).
Many parents report that major adjustments are required. For women who were
stay-at-home mothers, the loss can be quite pronounced. Traditional
homemakers, who focus significant time and energy on their children, face a
challenging time.
Although the loss can be difficult, parents also find that some aspects of
this transition are quite positive. Even mothers who have stayed at home find
they have time for other interests, such as community or recreational
activities, when the children leave. They may also enjoy the opportunity to
get a job or return to school. Finally, many women find that motherhood is not
easy; surveys show that most people regard motherhood as harder than it used
to be. Such women may now feel liberated from a difficult set of
responsibilities (Heubusch, 1997; Morfei et al., 2004; Chen, Yang, \&c Dale
Aagard, 2012).